Saturday, October 26, 2013

We Value People (part 3)

The "O" of my family motto has taught me about three very specific characteristics that are important to develop: obedience, openness, and optimism.

Obedience is such a vital attribute to develop.  Through our obedience we are able to demonstrate our love for the Savior.  Christ said, "If ye love me keep my commandments."  And President Ezra Taft Benson : "When obedience ceases to be an irritant and becomes our quest, in that moment God will endow us with power."  So obedience is not only a manifestation of our love but it is also a source of power.

I have learned that open communication and service are essential to having a happy, rewarding relationship.  Whether you are trying to improve your relationship with your mom, dad, brother, sister, friend, significant other, mission companion, neighbor, whoever, one of the best things you can do is to serve them.  And there won't be nearly as many misunderstandings and incorrect assumptions if we will take the time to openly communicate about our feelings, concerns, and frustrations.

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland shared this about optimism and hope:
"I love what Elder Orson F. Whitney once said: 'The spirit of the gospel is optimistic; it trusts in God and looks on the bright side of things. The opposite or pessimistic spirit drags men down and away from God, looks on the dark side, murmurs, complains, and is slow to yield obedience.' We should honor the Savior’s declaration to 'be of good cheer.' (Indeed, it seems to me we may be more guilty of breaking that commandment than almost any other!) Speak hopefully. Speak encouragingly, including about yourself."
Life is much more enjoyable when we have an optimistic, hopeful attitude and outlook.  President Thomas S. Monson, our living prophet, has said, "Be of good cheer. The future is as bright as your faith."  When our lives are founded upon the gospel of Jesus Christ, we can be optimistic about our future because our faith leads us to act. 

1 comment:

  1. I love your family motto! Especially with the "O's." The happiness in my life increases immensely when I'm obedient and optimistic!

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